Many times, for most couples, lives fall into a monotonous pattern and things become predictable. But, are you sure this isn’t making the relationship dull? Think about it! When was the last time you two had an on-the-spur-of-the-moment kind of a lovemaking session? Can’t remember? And that is the biggest indication that your relationship, at least sexually, is going a bit downhill. Don’t you want that excitement to be there always? So, this year, maybe it’s time to take a resolution to ignite the lost spark in your relationship! And bring in some new kinky moves that can surely help you raise the temperatures of the makeout session.
1. Power Play
Who is usually in control in bed or who usually makes the first move and drives the makeout session? If it has always been him then it’s high time to take the initiative and take control and surprise your partner. Play with power get dominant in bed, men love women controlling them in bed.
2. Try places other than the bed
As people become more comfortable and sex becomes more routine, couples often just hop into bed and start going through their sexual motions. There is generally no seduction or foreplay involved. That is just a big NO. Try undressing each other slowly, make out in the kitchen, on the dining table, the shower, the bath tub, the options are so many! And while you are at it, try leaving a trail of clothes from the front door to the living room. That is super hot (and not to mention just like in the movies and romance novels)
3. Be selfish
It’s fully acceptable to let it be all about you sometimes. In order to get fully aroused and to climax, you need to focus on your pleasure a bit. So, it is quite okay to know what you want, ask for what you want, and make sure you are taken care of. Not only OK, it’s sexy! So next time around, ask for what you want and ask your partner to just focus on you from time to time.
4. Be kinky
Are you one of those couples who adore each other, and respects each other, and is so polite with each other? Then surely the respect you have for each other makes you feel uncomfortable with letting things veer too far from vanilla in bed. Yes, tender, sweet love-making is divine but it makes sex so dull. Surely we all want the Fifty Shades of Grey type of sex once in a while too! So let the sex be erotic, dirty and raunchy this time.
5. Use lube
Lube is that wonderful product, that not only makes the whole lovemaking session better but also more pleasurable and enjoyable. And for women who suffer from vaginal dryness, lubes works wonders. Lube not only reduces friction but also eases discomfort and decreases the chances of breaking a condom. Lube can be a great addition to your sexual routine, especially when you decide to use sex toys to amp things up.
6. A naughty lingerie
One of the best ways to have the best make out session is to dress in an irresistible lingerie. Buy some naughty and pretty doll suits or lingerie. Look sexy and lure him.
7. Chocolate is the way to go down
Chocolate is a great aphrodisiac. The idea of licking chocolate off of one’s partner is a fantasy most of us want to fulfill. Why not try it then? Take your favorite Hershey’s to bed and get naughty.
8. Music for the ears
Music can amp up the whole sex session. A good romantic number can work wonders and we promise that you won’t ever forget such an experience. So put on a sexy track to elevate the whole experience to a whole new level.
9. Bondage is sexy as hell
Tying up someone can be a thrill, for both the tied up and the one who ties. Why not give it a try? get the handcuffs or spank him hard. 😉
*as published on Pinknest